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23 Kinky Sex Ideas: Very Freaky Tips To Spice Up Sex

23 Kinky Sex Ideas: Very Freaky Tips To Spice Up Sex

This discreet newsletter will teach you how to give him freaky oral sex & make him scream your name in bed. Click here to get it.

There are more than kinky sex ideas and tips on this page than you can use in next year, so my advice is to bookmark it.

Quick Warning: While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you. If you are interested in having your guy completely obsessed with you and only you, then check out the detailed (& explicit!) blow job tutorial video here.

Podcast: 11 Kinky Blow Job Tips

In addition to reading the guide below, you may want to listen to this podcast, where you will learn how to give your man the best blow job he has ever received. I also cover the horrendous mistakes women make BEFORE they even begin their blow job.

Now, you may want to skip straight to really kinky stuff by clicking here, but if you have the time, then I’d strongly recommend reading the next paragraphs to ensure you get the most out of this guide.

If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually addicted to you, then you’ll find them in my private and discreet newsletter. You’ll also learn the 5 dangerous & “dumb” sex mistakes that turn him off and how to avoid them. Get it here.

1. Great Communication is Key

The most important factor when it comes to having kinkier sex with your partner is understanding the importance of communication…

It sure does, but without proper communication, you’re not going to fully understand what your partner needs, and he will only be able to guess what you need and enjoy.

Great communication also means using a safe word if you compatible partners are attempting anything potentially dangerous. More on safe words here.

2. Some Things Will Feel “Meh,” And That’s Ok

There are so many different kinky ideas, tips and games on this page, but not all of them will be enjoyable for you or your man.

The key is finding what works for you and expanding on it. If you find that rough sex ( is your thing, that’s great, keep expanding on it.

Quick Quiz: Do You Give Lousy Blow Jobs?

If you are new here, then you may want to take the quiz below to learn how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. You may discover you that you suck (pun intended) or that you are already a blow job queen.

I wish I didn’t have to say it, but I get so many emails from people asking me how to enjoy something they don’t enjoy! It may be a conundrum for you too, but here’s the truth.

Sex isn’t like tax season where you have to pay your taxes. You only have to have the sex you want to have.

3. Start Slow

If you are trying some new kinky idea you’ve just found on this page, or elsewhere on the Bad Girls Bible site, then my advice is to start slow and try the tamest version of it first.

So, if you want to try getting spanked by your man, get him to use his hand or a hairbrush first before you spend $100’s on whips, paddles, and floggers.

4. Blindfolds

I don’t want to tell you how to blindfold your man. That’s the easy part, just use a towel, eye mask or buy a blindfold. It’s what you do while he’s blindfolded that’s important.